Why “Friends And Family” Shouldn’t Be Part Of Your Business “Formula”…

by tduff on February 24, 2010

When most first get involved with their home based business, the first thing they’re told to do is to make a list of their warm market. You’ve heard it over and over again…”sit down and write a list of your family, friends and anyone you’ve had contact with over the past year…then call them and invite them to a “showing”".

And, truth be told, this technique does work….however, it’s not a long term business building strategy – it’s really like building a business on quicksand.

Here’s why. You’ll go through that process and likely enroll a few people. After a few months though you’ve got a problem on your hands…those that were gung ho crazy about making tons of money have now dropped out of your business (cause they weren’t making anything) and you can’t recruit fast enough to offset those dropping out.

End result = your check gets smaller and smaller with each passing month.

Network marketing is one of very few industries that provides no formal training to new associates. We hear the typical stuff…approach your friends and family, pass out fliers, product samples, etc – there’s “no meat and potatoes” to build your business based upon direct response marketing principals.

Think about it…if you wanted to be a pharmacist, an accountant, a fashion designer…or hey, even if you wanted to flip burgers, you’d partake in a formal training program that would show you the “ins and outs” of how to do what you’re trying to do, right?

Not so much in network marketing. The only thing “qualifying” someone to be in business is your checkbook…bring a few hundred bucks and we’ll get you into business. OK, now what? No formal training, just approach everyone who comes within 3 feet of you, sound excited…and you’ll build a business. Uh huh.

Building a business requires an understanding of what marketing is REALLY all about. It’s an understanding of how to create an endless supply of leads…then how to properly communicate with them using the written word and the spoken word to bring ‘em into your business.

It took me several years to ultimately figure out that network marketing (or building any business for that matter) boils down to 2 basic things…constantly learning and constantly applying that knowledge into my business. Almost sounds too simple, but it’s the absolute truth.

Savvy marketers understand that they can’t build a sound business with their friends and family…they understand they have to “work the numbers”, but not in the traditional sense. Most people believe they can build a business by “presenting” their opportunity to 20 or 30 prospects a week will do the trick – doesn’t work like that.

For most, that would be a GREAT week too. There’s a much more effective and efficient way of building a business…you can “present” your products/opportunity to THOUSANDS, or TENS OF THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE EVERY WEEK…when you understand marketing. It comes down to this formula:

1. Create a list of prospects that are reaching out…wanting more information on what you’ve got cookin’.

2. Share valuable content/information with them (remember, marketing is about building relationships based upon their needs, then solving their problems).

3. Host periodic teleconferences or webinars – to share good content and recruit.

4. Recruit via email and/or video via the list you’ve created.

You must be positioned as a leading authority in your niche – prospects buy from experts and those they trust. Simple as that.

Once you master this formula, the sky really is the limit. Not only for yourself, but you’ll then share your knowledge to your team so they can do the same.

I went through the school of hard knocks…after first getting involved with network marketing in the early 90′s I spent about $70,000.00 trying to figure things out on my own. HUGE MISTAKE, but it also taught me volumes.

It’s that knowledge that provides me the ability to generate millions of dollars every year and more importantly, share that information and exactly how to do it with people like you.

If you’re serious about creating a sound business and recruiting more associates next month than you did during the prior 12 combined…it’s paramount that you understand direct response marketing. Here’s a few of my mentors that you should be learning from as well: Dan Kennedy, Michael Masterson, Claude Hopkins, the late Gary Halbert, Eben Pagan…to name a few. Get on their mailing lists..watch their every move. Learn.

Committed to your success,

Terry

{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }

Bryce February 24, 2010 at 5:17

Great post T, love your stuff – keep it up.

Bryce

Sandra February 24, 2010 at 5:17

Been following you for a while now & just wanted to tell you that the information you share rocks. It’s not the normal “fluff” you here from many others out there. I can definitely tell you’re out on the front lines yourself doing exactly what you’re teaching.

This really helps people like me knowing where they can turn to get real information that actually works.

Thanks!

Sandra Opel

Dan February 24, 2010 at 5:17

I’ve been in seven different network marketing company’s and failed in all of them. I had just joined another one last year and I Know now that I need to find a system that works and I can almost guarantee that it is not going to be with the company I joined so I’m all ears. I will follow you, please help take me to the top thanks from Dan B.

Karen G. February 24, 2010 at 5:17

This really makes sense to me. You’re right, some people can go at it without training, but I am definitely NOT one of them. I’m desperate for somebody to give me some practical training in how to do this. Thanks for your articles.

Charlie Wolter February 24, 2010 at 5:17

Terry Duff is one of the most knowledgeable people about this business that you will ever come across. You can tell that he has learned from the school of hard knocks, where most of us had, and turned those experiences into quality teaching and business building.

Bookmark this page, it will be one of the best resources you’ll ever find.

Thanks Terry…..

Charlie Wolter

Deneen February 25, 2010 at 5:17

Hey Terry, I know i was supposed to get back with you a while ago but im frustrated and dont have alot of money to spend. i know what i have is great but its hard to get others to see the potential. what do i do?

tduff February 25, 2010 at 5:17

Hi Deneen,

Not to be blunt, but the reality is that convincing and approaching others isn’t an effective, long term strategy. That’s why you’re encountering the obstacles that you are. Study direct response marketing – learn how to have others approaching you. This concept is key and really what this blog is all about.

Best,

Terry

tduff February 25, 2010 at 5:17

@ CW – thank you…appreciate the kind words.

:)

Terry

tduff February 25, 2010 at 5:17

Dan,

It’s NOT the company that determines success…it’s YOU. Study, learn and a firm understanding of core marketing principals is key. Most get involved w/a company thinking they just get 2 who get two who get two…etc. Doesn’t work like that.

Head to Amazon and grab the resources I mentioned in this blog…spend $100 on you and begin the process of developing yourself. Success isn’t determined by the quality of the company or the how good the products are for that matter…success is determined by what you do and actions you make.

Terry

larry woodard February 25, 2010 at 5:17

Gooood Morning.
i’m having a hard time convinceing myself to get off my ……. and get started to be honest with yoy i’m broke. i know it’s not your problem but can you help me!!!!!!.

thank you in advance. “larry”

tduff February 26, 2010 at 5:17

Larry, success is a choice – “broke” is a state of mind. Focus on building “you”.

Montie M March 28, 2010 at 5:17

Thanks a lot, Terry, your articles are logical and great! it will serve as guidance for me who have just started mlm.

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